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A POPULATION UNITED IN GRIEF

Author(s):    Eun Lee Koh, Globe Staff Correspondent Date: July 28, 2002 Page: 1 Section: Globe West
The morning sunlight trickled through cracks between the boards covering the windows of Doyle's Star Package Store, and caught the dusty remnants of the most destructive local explosion in recent memory.

Aubrey Doyle stared out across the street to an empty lot where a house once stood. He shook his head and paused before flipping the sign on the door to indicate he was open for business. The day after what officials say apparently was a natural-gas explosion ripped through a four-family house in the heart of downtown, at 65 Main St., residents and school and town officials pulled together to try to make sense of an accident that killed two young sisters and left the 10 survivors without a home.

Residents rallied to set up a fund for the four families who lost their possessions in the explosion, and another fund in memory of 4-year-old Iris and 5-year-old Violet Carey, the girls who died in the blast. School officials posted instructional guides for parents on the school Web site about how to talk to their children about death and loss. Town officials made trips to the site to survey the damage and pay their respects.

And, in early-morning light Thursday, a handful of residents gathered at the site to recite the Lord's Prayer for the victims.

"How do you go on from something like this?" Doyle said as he removed the remaining glass shards from the storefront windows, which were damaged by the explosion. "No one ever imagines something like this would ever happen. Never in a million years. I don't know, but life keeps going on. I don't know, but it just does."

Jack Phelan, the superintendent of schools, was on his way to Merrimack, N.H., to interview a candidate for high school principal when he heard news of the explosion. Violet Carey was registered for kindergarten at Center School, just a few blocks away from the house.

Phelan's afternoon was filled with speaking to grief counselors, parents, and teachers, and discussing how they should handle questions from students in September if they wonder why Violet isn't there.

"I can't tell you the amount of grief we all feel at the loss of such a young life," Phelan said. "The community has just suffered a tremendous tragedy, and we're still trying to figure out how to cope with it. It's something people are going to talk about for a while."

Marybeth Hay, a kindergarten teacher at the Center School, said some parents had already taken their children to the site so that they could talk to them about the events that occurred.

"I'm not really sure what kind of an effect it will have on the young kids, but I know that there will be some students with questions when school starts up again," Hay said. "It's a really tricky and tragic situation. I'm trying to prepare myself as best I can to talk to the children about it."

The magnitude of the explosion, which tore the roof from the house, required the help of firefighters from five neighboring towns, who arrived at the scene shortly after the blast at 1:40 a.m. Wednesday. Firefighters from Ashland, Milford, Westborough, and Southborough, all members of the Massachusetts Southern Fire District Technical Rescue, awoke in the darkness to help the Hopkinton Fire Department. Firefighters from Marlborough also assisted.

"It was one of those incidents that required a tremendous coordinated effort," said Peter Chisholm, spokesman for the district. "Because the firefighters from these towns were helping Hopkinton, firefighters from other towns were covering for them in their own towns. The accident set off a huge domino effect."

Eric Sonnett, the chairman of the Hopkinton Board of Selectmen, was awakened by the explosion and arrived at the site in the middle of the night. In the hours following, town officials discussed what could be done for the families who had just lost their homes, and they decided to urge residents to donate to the funds set up for the families.

"The empty space is really jarring," said Curtis Kinney, an Upton resident who stopped to survey the site on his way to work Thursday morning. "I drive this road all the time. I couldn't have even pointed this house out to you before, but there's no way I will forget now."

Donations to The Violet and Iris Carey Memorial Fund may be sent in care of Fleet Bank, 209 East Main St., Milford 01757, to benefit their parents, Tara and Heath Carey. To benefit all four families who lived in the house, donations may be sent to The Flower Fund, in care of Middlesex Savings Bank, 10 Main St., Hopkinton 01748.

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